Happy Labor Day! If you have off of work and school like me then YAY!


Pornography (often abbreviated as “porn” or “porno”) is such a touchy subject. I don’t get all the hype! I don’t care if you watch porn, if you hate it or if you make it. As long as its safe & legal there shouldn’t be a problem. Here I am going to list some things I’ve heard about porn and how they are complete & utter bullshit.

BUT before I do that….

Types of porn I’ve seen:

  • A celebrity sex tape [example: Kim Kardashian, Paris Hilton, and Kendra Wilkinson.]
  • Something weird [example: 2 Girls 1 Cup]
  • Porn bloopers [BRO, THOSE ARE THE BEST. CAN I PUT LINKS? IS THAT TOO MUCH? OH GOD THOSE ARE FUNNY]

I mean come on who hasn’t been with a group of friends and someone said, “Yo! Have you seen that video of the girl licking salad dressing of the guys….” You get my drift.

Okay, now back to my list

“Watching porn makes me feel embarrassed.”

Don’t be! WTF why do you care what other people think?!? When I asked some of my female friends if they watch porn some of them get embarrassed. But why? If you want to watch porn to get off, or learn some new techniques or even have a good laugh, go ahead! Nothing is wrong with that, I’ve always heard people preach about sex before marriage being a sin. They never said watching porn was a sin (Not sure though, don’t quote me) but if you want to watch porn, go ahead, don’t feel embarrassed & if you watch weird porno send me a link, so we can hall have a good laugh.

“Only people who don’t have sex watch porn!”

Just because you watch porn doesn’t mean you don’t have sex. Honestly that statement doesn’t even make any sense. I have had people say to me, “Only people who don’t get none watch porn.” or “Only virgins watch porn.” That’s not true at all, all people of all shapes and sizes watch porn. Sex addicts watch porn, virgins watch porn, your mom watched porn in the 70’s, and even your 6th grade math teacher. They all watched porn, not just the virgins.

“Only slutty women watch porn!”

All types of women watch porn. I read somewhere that one in three adults browsing porn sites are women. That’s a pretty big number. Now there is a myth that all women hate porn, but their internet history is saying something else. There are also women who bash other women who watch porn, yet were quick to go see 50 Shades of Crap Grey, and read all three of the books. Don’t bash your fellow woman.

“Porn is a sin!”

Show me a bible verse. I’m not religious, but show me a verse or a story where Susie went to hell for fiddling up her skirt. I read on a website, not sure if I can cite it or not but it said that, “Pornography leads to sex trafficking and rape especially of children and young adults.” Seriously, in what world is that even true?!? I think thats a bit drastic to link porn to sex trafficking. I may need to brush up on my Law and Order SVU episodes.

“Porn brings out bad urges!”

I disagree with this. If anything it allows women to explore some fantasies they have. If a girl doesn’t feel comfortable sharing her sexual fantasies then maybe she wants to see a few porno’s on the matter. It could be something simple, like handcuffing. However, she may feel a bit awkward telling her boring husband/wife that she wants to be tied to the bed and flogged with a paddle. Porn doesn’t judge.

“Women can’t handle porn!”

I’ve been told that men are better than women at compartmentalization. A man’s brain has so many different compartments, that they divide their life up into separate components that don’t touch each other. Okay, that’s fake but okay. In no way has watching porn ruined my life and I can list a bunch of females I know (who aren’t embarrassed to admit they watch porn) who can say the same.


So what are your thoughts? I know this may be one sided because I am a woman but guys I would love to hear your opinion on this as well.

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